"I conceive that pleasures are to be avoided if greater pains be the consequence,
and pains to be coveted that will terminate in greater pleasures."
Michel Eyquem de Montaigne
This quote talks about how important decisions are. What you decide today can affect you years down the road. And if you have to work really hard and go trough unpleasant things to get a reward, then it's all worth it! You really need to avoid those superficial pleasures that will hurt you years down the roadl. Keep in mind you aren't looking for immediate gratification, you're looking for greater pleasures... Keeps your sights on eternal things guys! God Bless!